About
Rae is an autistic self-advocate leading peer support groups for adults to process and discuss what it’s like to be autistic in the world. He loves animals, the outdoors, and all forms of creative expression. Rae is passionate about filling support gaps for autistic adults to live long, happy lives.
Experience
Rae holds graduate degrees in psychology and creative writing and is currently a doctoral scholar in Autism Studies at Towson University. His published works include poetry, lyric essay, personal essay, and academic writing.
Education
PhD Student in Autism Studies, Towson University (Current)
MFA in Creative Writing, University of Wyoming (2023)
MA in Psychology, San Diego State University (2021)
BA in Psychology, University of Montana (2016)
Recent Articles by
Rae Waters Hartman Haight

How to Regulate Your Nervous System: A Guide for Autistic Adults
It’s likely that you’ve heard of the fight, flight or freeze response, but have you heard about its balancing counterpart, rest-and-digest? Understanding the balance between these two processes in the body is crucial for improving nervous system regulation and stress management in autistic adults.
Autistic people often experience heightened or dysregulated nervous systems, especially in overwhelming environments. This can lead to chronic stress, shutdowns, meltdowns and sensory overwhelm. Addressing nervous system dysregulation can significantly improve quality of life, physical health, emotion regulation, sensory processing and mental health.
Mind-body practices are effective tools for nervous system regulation, helping shift the body out of the fight, flight or freeze response to a state of safety and calm (rest-and-digest). It is important to consult with a healthcare professional before starting any new therapeutic techniques.

Comprehensive Guide to the Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule, Second Edition (ADOS-2)
While Prosper Health is a neurodiversity-affirming practice, diagnostic criteria and assessments often use deficit-focused language that isn’t neurodiversity-affirming. We chose to include some of this deficit-based language—which does not reflect how we would usually write about autism—in this article for the sake of accurately portraying diagnostic materials.

Can Autism Be Cured? Why Acceptance Matters More
Autism is a natural variation in human neurodevelopment. Those on the autism spectrum often have unique ways of thinking, learning and interacting with the world. Autistic peoples’ brains are essentially wired differently––and many people want to find the cause of these differences and remove them. In fact, most money going toward autism research is going toward researching the treatment and prevention of autism.
However, studying the causes of autism with the intention of curing it is a controversial topic. Autism spectrum disorder is a neurodevelopmental disorder that cannot––and many argue, should not––be “cured.”